This is the website about all the stuff you never wanted to think you’d ever need to know. This is a man-to-man how-to-survive-divorce guidebook. We know firsthand that going through a divorce mostly sucks, and we found that the internet mostly sucks for men going through a divorce.
We started writing this blog because most the stuff on the internet about divorce that we found during our divorces seemed scammy or was geared toward women only…or both. We found some good pages out there but not a solid how-to-survive-divorce website for men–especially for 21st century men who had been left by their 21st century wives.
On this site, you won’t find a freakish amount of advertisements competing for your eye holes; instead, you will find the perspectives of men who have thought a lot about what divorce is like and how men can get through it in one piece and, perhaps, how they can come out improved because of the experience. Also, you’ll find links. Follow them, and that will help us–especially if you buy things we recommend.
All that said, some men are assholes, and we ain’t. So here is what this blog is and isn’t:
WHAT IS THIS BLOG?
- A place where some middle aged dudes talk about divorce. (Most of what’s out there is about men leaving women; that’s bogus.)
- A place for men to find pointers about surviving divorce. (You need to be in survival mode, and we’re here to share our survivalist skills.)
- A place for discovering helpful ways to think about the experience you’re having right now. (You need perspective, and we have some perspective to share with you regarding our divorces and our post-divorce lives.)
- A place where men discuss living the good life after marriage. (We want to help you to find a better lifestyle, one that’s better because you’re single! That’s a process.)
- A place we wish we had found when we were going through this sh*t. (We found it shocking how little there was for divorcing men. And the internet abhors a vacuum!)
WHAT ISN’T THIS BLOG?
- A place for men to hate on women. (We love women. Misogyny is lame, a refuge for the weak. You won’t find that stuff here.)
- A place for men to seek professional advice from the authorities. (We aren’t doctors, therapists, or lawyers. Go seek out the experts as needed.)
- A place for you to publicly share mean sh*t about your ex with others. (This isn’t a hateful forum. Generally speaking, we keep it positive, and we modify posts if we deem them over-the-top offensive.)
- A place to read about men “slaying ass” and objectifying women to feel good about themselves. (There’s plenty of that crap out there already. We’re not interested.)
- A place that is scammy or has ulterior motives. (We’re honest about what we’re doing. Sure, we hope to make some money, but we did all this to help others. Full stop.)